“A woman who respects and loves herself will never, ever do these 6 things: A psychologist harshly reveals!
Mikhail Law Jonson is a well-known and popular US psychologist with over 40 years of experience, specializing in male-female relationships. This psychologist often communicates with his audience and answers their questions and dilemmas. Recently, he responded to a question about ‘perfect’ women on Instagram. According to Mikhail, those are the women who, above all, respect themselves. His text is reproduced in full,
“I was asked what an ideal woman should be like? Many times I have said this – no one owes anything to anyone! Therefore, I will reformulate this question before answering. Therefore, it should read: ‘What would a woman who respects herself never do?’ This is my answer!
A woman with high self-confidence, who loves and values herself, will never do the following:
1. Shift responsibility for her own well-being onto others – onto parents, partners, friends, or children… She relies only on herself, on her own strength and resources.
2. Be financially dependent on someone. A woman who respects herself is capable of providing for herself. And men will always respect her for that; it lets them know she is independent and self-sufficient. Therefore, she never encounters narcissistic or selfish men; financially stable women avoid such types.
3. Blame others for her problems. A woman with high self-confidence does not sit and wait for someone to come and save her; she strives to solve her problems herself. Of course, she may ask for help, but only if she really needs it. Also, such women are happy to help others when needed.
4. Seek approval from others. She only does what she likes: works until the work is satisfactory, wears clothes she likes, associates with people she feels good with.
5. Compare herself to others – friends, colleagues, actresses, models from social networks… The only person you should compare yourself to is yourself in the past. A woman with high self-confidence is aware that there will always be someone richer, more successful, with thicker hair and longer legs, and therefore simply sees no point in comparison.
6. Try for marriage at any cost. For self-aware women, it is not important to have a ring on their finger, but to have respect and love in their relationship. For her, the stamp of the paper is not an end in itself, nor is having children. She is prepared to wait for a partner who is worthy of her, and if she doesn’t meet him, she is capable of living happily on her own.”
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